It’s been almost a month since more than 270 young women
were kidnapped from their school in Nigeria, and only a week since the world’s
news media, the United States, and the Nigerian President have starting
speaking about this horrific assault.
I first learned about what was happening on May 1st
on social media, and tweeted, “If
200+ white girls were kidnapped in London, it would 24/7 headline news with
governments sending troops in to help.” I kept thinking about how the U.S.
media had been obsessed with covering the stories of one missing white young
woman: how Jon Benet, Elizabeth Smart, and Natalie Holloway are household words
but that these brilliant school girls in Nigeria weren’t making headlines at
all.
I’m glad
they are now. But, I have to ask, “What
took so long?” And “if thousands of social media activists hadn’t responded,
would they be headlines now?” I want someone in the media to acknowledge that
they were wrong in not covering this as soon as it was known. I want there to be searing analysis about how
we are not in a post-racial era at all. I
want there to be coverage of how it is that there are men willing to enslave
young women because they wanted an education and that there is a market of men
who will buy them. I want world leaders
and media leaders to acknowledge that sexism and racism still permeate the
world. I want the world to redouble its commitments to women's education and women's safety.
As a
survivor of sexual assault, my heart aches for these young women and the terror
they must be experiencing. As a mother
of a young woman, my heart hurts for their mothers who don’t know where their
daughters are but do have an idea about what they are going through. As a
minister, I cry out for us to remember our call to take care of the most
vulnerable and the most marginalized.
I fear
that just like some of the individual kidnappings, too much time has passed for
these young women to be found. But, I
will keep praying that they will. And, I will do my part to raise my voice to make
sure that the search goes on. On Mother’s
Day, I will light candles for them and for their mothers. I hope you will join me.